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Ever

Ever is a unisex given name: about 61% of people named Ever are men and 39% are women, so a gendered salutation is a coin flip and the neutral form is the safe choice.

UnisexHigh
Male 61%Female 39%

This name is used for both men and women without a strong lean either way.

Verdict
Unisex
Male / female split
61% male / 39% female
Confidence
High (64 or more weighted country observations)
Most common in
United States
US births since 1880
3,108 male / 1,994 female
Data
nam_dict (GFDL) + US SSA
Updated
2026-09-11

How to address Ever

To address Ever when you do not know their gender, use the full name with no title: "Dear Ever," in English, "Guten Tag Ever," in German. About 61% of people named Ever are men and 39% are women, so a gendered salutation is close to a coin flip, and the neutral form above is the safer choice.

Ready-made greetings in six languages

English

Dear Ever,

German

Guten Tag Ever,

French

Bonjour Ever,

Spanish

Estimado/a Ever:

Chinese

Ever您好：

Japanese

Ever様

English

Hi Ever,

German

Hi Ever,

French

Salut Ever,

Spanish

Hola Ever,

Chinese

Ever你好：

Japanese

Everさん

Greeting generator

This is a statistical estimate, not a statement about the gender, identity or correct form of address of any particular person.

Country breakdown

Gender of the name Ever by country (nam_dict, 55 country columns)
CountryHow commonUsuallyMale share
United Statescommonunisex name61%

United States birth data

3,108 male · 1,994 female · 5,102 births recorded

Male 61%Female 39%

Since 1980: 74% male.

Frequently asked questions

Is Ever a male or female name?

Ever is a unisex given name: about 61% of people named Ever are men and 39% are women, so a gendered salutation is a coin flip and the neutral form is the safe choice.

How do I address Ever in an email?

To address Ever when you do not know their gender, use the full name with no title: "Dear Ever," in English, "Guten Tag Ever," in German. About 61% of people named Ever are men and 39% are women, so a gendered salutation is close to a coin flip, and the neutral form above is the safer choice.

Is Ever a unisex name?

Ever is a unisex name: 61% of people named Ever are men. The split stays close across most of the countries in the data.

Related names

MariaFemaleAnnaFemaleMarieFemalePeterMaleJeanDepends on the countryAlexanderMaleDavidMaleJoseMale

Sources

Gender by country: nam_dict, the c't first-names dictionary by Joerg Michael, roughly 44,000 names across 55 countries, licensed GFDL. US frequencies: United States Social Security Administration baby-name data, public domain. Method: how we classify names. Full dataset: data & licences. Data built 2026-09-11.

Cite this page

DearWho, "Is Ever a male or female name?", https://dearwho.vercel.app/name/ever (accessed 2026-09-11). Data: nam_dict (J. Michael, GFDL) and US SSA, built 2026-09-11.

BibTeX
@misc{dearwho_ever,
  title  = {Is Ever a male or female name?},
  author = {{DearWho}},
  year   = {2026},
  url    = {https://dearwho.vercel.app/name/ever},
  note   = {Data: nam_dict (GFDL), US SSA public domain}
}