Pat
Pat is a unisex given name: about 44% of people named Pat are men and 56% are women, so a gendered salutation is a coin flip and the neutral form is the safe choice.
This name is used for both men and women without a strong lean either way.
- Verdict
- Unisex
- Male / female split
- 44% male / 56% female
- Confidence
- High (64 or more weighted country observations)
- Most common in
- United States, Ireland, Great Britain
- US births since 1880
- 26,731 male / 40,123 female
- Data
- nam_dict (GFDL) + US SSA
- Updated
- 2026-09-11
How to address Pat
To address Pat when you do not know their gender, use the full name with no title: "Dear Pat," in English, "Guten Tag Pat," in German. About 44% of people named Pat are men and 56% are women, so a gendered salutation is close to a coin flip, and the neutral form above is the safer choice.
Ready-made greetings in six languages
English
Dear Pat,
German
Guten Tag Pat,
French
Bonjour Pat,
Spanish
Estimado/a Pat:
Chinese
Pat您好：
Japanese
Pat様
English
Hi Pat,
German
Hi Pat,
French
Salut Pat,
Spanish
Hola Pat,
Chinese
Pat你好：
Japanese
Patさん
This is a statistical estimate, not a statement about the gender, identity or correct form of address of any particular person.
Country breakdown
| Country | How common | Usually | Male share |
|---|---|---|---|
| United States | very common | unisex name | 40% |
| Ireland | common | man's name | 75% |
| Great Britain | rare | unisex name | 50% |
United States birth data
26,731 male · 40,123 female · 66,854 births recorded
Since 1980: 84% male.
Frequently asked questions
Is Pat a male or female name?
Pat is a unisex given name: about 44% of people named Pat are men and 56% are women, so a gendered salutation is a coin flip and the neutral form is the safe choice.
How do I address Pat in an email?
To address Pat when you do not know their gender, use the full name with no title: "Dear Pat," in English, "Guten Tag Pat," in German. About 44% of people named Pat are men and 56% are women, so a gendered salutation is close to a coin flip, and the neutral form above is the safer choice.
Is Pat a unisex name?
Pat is a unisex name: 44% of people named Pat are men. The split stays close across most of the countries in the data.
Related names
Sources
Gender by country: nam_dict, the c't first-names dictionary by Joerg Michael, roughly 44,000 names across 55 countries, licensed GFDL. US frequencies: United States Social Security Administration baby-name data, public domain. Method: how we classify names. Full dataset: data & licences. Data built 2026-09-11.
DearWho, "Is Pat a male or female name?", https://dearwho.vercel.app/name/pat (accessed 2026-09-11). Data: nam_dict (J. Michael, GFDL) and US SSA, built 2026-09-11.
BibTeX
@misc{dearwho_pat,
title = {Is Pat a male or female name?},
author = {{DearWho}},
year = {2026},
url = {https://dearwho.vercel.app/name/pat},
note = {Data: nam_dict (GFDL), US SSA public domain}
}