To
To is a unisex given name: about 49% of people named To are men and 51% are women, so a gendered salutation is a coin flip and the neutral form is the safe choice.
This name is used for both men and women without a strong lean either way.
- Verdict
- Unisex
- Male / female split
- 49% male / 51% female
- Confidence
- High (64 or more weighted country observations)
- Most common in
- Vietnam, Korea, Netherlands
- Data
- nam_dict (GFDL) + US SSA
- Updated
- 2026-09-11
How to address To
To address To when you do not know their gender, use the full name with no title: "Dear To," in English, "Guten Tag To," in German. About 49% of people named To are men and 51% are women, so a gendered salutation is close to a coin flip, and the neutral form above is the safer choice.
Ready-made greetings in six languages
English
Dear To,
German
Guten Tag To,
French
Bonjour To,
Spanish
Estimado/a To:
Chinese
To您好：
Japanese
To様
English
Hi To,
German
Hi To,
French
Salut To,
Spanish
Hola To,
Chinese
To你好：
Japanese
Toさん
This is a statistical estimate, not a statement about the gender, identity or correct form of address of any particular person.
Country breakdown
| Country | How common | Usually | Male share |
|---|---|---|---|
| Vietnam | common | unisex name | 50% |
| Korea | rare | unisex name | 50% |
| Netherlands | rare | woman's name | 2% |
Frequently asked questions
Is To a male or female name?
To is a unisex given name: about 49% of people named To are men and 51% are women, so a gendered salutation is a coin flip and the neutral form is the safe choice.
How do I address To in an email?
To address To when you do not know their gender, use the full name with no title: "Dear To," in English, "Guten Tag To," in German. About 49% of people named To are men and 51% are women, so a gendered salutation is close to a coin flip, and the neutral form above is the safer choice.
Is To a unisex name?
To is a unisex name: 49% of people named To are men. The split stays close across most of the countries in the data.
Related names
Sources
Gender by country: nam_dict, the c't first-names dictionary by Joerg Michael, roughly 44,000 names across 55 countries, licensed GFDL. US frequencies: United States Social Security Administration baby-name data, public domain. Method: how we classify names. Full dataset: data & licences. Data built 2026-09-11.
DearWho, "Is To a male or female name?", https://dearwho.vercel.app/name/to (accessed 2026-09-11). Data: nam_dict (J. Michael, GFDL) and US SSA, built 2026-09-11.
BibTeX
@misc{dearwho_to,
title = {Is To a male or female name?},
author = {{DearWho}},
year = {2026},
url = {https://dearwho.vercel.app/name/to},
note = {Data: nam_dict (GFDL), US SSA public domain}
}