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Tomie

Tomie is a unisex given name: about 62% of people named Tomie are men and 38% are women, so a gendered salutation is a coin flip and the neutral form is the safe choice.

UnisexMedium
Male 62%Female 38%

This name is used for both men and women without a strong lean either way.

Verdict
Unisex
Male / female split
62% male / 38% female
Confidence
Medium (8 to 63 weighted country observations)
Most common in
United States, Japan
US births since 1880
903 male / 470 female
Data
nam_dict (GFDL) + US SSA
Updated
2026-09-11

How to address Tomie

To address Tomie when you do not know their gender, use the full name with no title: "Dear Tomie," in English, "Guten Tag Tomie," in German. About 62% of people named Tomie are men and 38% are women, so a gendered salutation is close to a coin flip, and the neutral form above is the safer choice.

Ready-made greetings in six languages

English

Dear Tomie,

German

Guten Tag Tomie,

French

Bonjour Tomie,

Spanish

Estimado/a Tomie:

Chinese

Tomie您好：

Japanese

Tomie様

English

Hi Tomie,

German

Hi Tomie,

French

Salut Tomie,

Spanish

Hola Tomie,

Chinese

Tomie你好：

Japanese

Tomieさん

Greeting generator

This is a statistical estimate, not a statement about the gender, identity or correct form of address of any particular person.

Country breakdown

Gender of the name Tomie by country (nam_dict, 55 country columns)
CountryHow commonUsuallyMale share
United Statesuncommonman's name66%
Japanrarewoman's name2%

United States birth data

903 male · 470 female · 1,373 births recorded

Male 66%Female 34%

Since 1980: 8% male.

Frequently asked questions

Is Tomie a male or female name?

Tomie is a unisex given name: about 62% of people named Tomie are men and 38% are women, so a gendered salutation is a coin flip and the neutral form is the safe choice.

How do I address Tomie in an email?

To address Tomie when you do not know their gender, use the full name with no title: "Dear Tomie," in English, "Guten Tag Tomie," in German. About 62% of people named Tomie are men and 38% are women, so a gendered salutation is close to a coin flip, and the neutral form above is the safer choice.

Is Tomie a unisex name?

Tomie is a unisex name: 62% of people named Tomie are men. The split stays close across most of the countries in the data.

Related names

MariaFemaleAnnaFemaleMarieFemalePeterMaleJeanDepends on the countryAlexanderMaleDavidMaleJoseMale

Sources

Gender by country: nam_dict, the c't first-names dictionary by Joerg Michael, roughly 44,000 names across 55 countries, licensed GFDL. US frequencies: United States Social Security Administration baby-name data, public domain. Method: how we classify names. Full dataset: data & licences. Data built 2026-09-11.

Cite this page

DearWho, "Is Tomie a male or female name?", https://dearwho.vercel.app/name/tomie (accessed 2026-09-11). Data: nam_dict (J. Michael, GFDL) and US SSA, built 2026-09-11.

BibTeX
@misc{dearwho_tomie,
  title  = {Is Tomie a male or female name?},
  author = {{DearWho}},
  year   = {2026},
  url    = {https://dearwho.vercel.app/name/tomie},
  note   = {Data: nam_dict (GFDL), US SSA public domain}
}